| TITLE : TALKING WITH THE EMPLOYEES: GUIDE FOR MANAGERS. |
1 managing relationships All employees must build relationships, 1 Does a manager manage people?, 2 Relationship with employees as a group, 2 Relationships with individuals, 5 How to build relationship skills, 7 Display your style, 8 2 let's be more formal The case against informality, 9 What do we mean by formal?, 10 The effect of formality badly handled discussions, 11 Which discussions should be formal? 12 Manager's responsibility, 12 Employee's responsibility, 12 Will formality ensure success?, 13 3 the formal discussion The common courtesies, 15 Behavioral guidelines, 17 Ceremony, ritual, 22 4 first work discussion Forget his predecessor, 24 Manager's preparation, 24 Form of meeting, 26 Summary of first discussion, 31 Recommendations, 31 5 the six months discussion Express your attitude and your purpose, 33 What about agenda?, 34 Manager's preparation, 34 Key do's and don'ts for an effective six months discussion, 44 6 negotiating a work program Preliminary meeting needed, 45 Advance description of negotiating session, 46 Manager's preparation, 47 Employee's preparation, 48 Record or documentation, 48 Summary of work program dialogue, 58 Recommendations, 58 7 recycling employee plans The case for planned change, 60 The manager's role, 61 Timing, 61 Not a substitute for follow-up, 61 Not a substitute for rapid feedback, 61 Not a performance appraisal, 61 Purposes of recycling, 62 Advance information, 63 Manager's preparation, 64 Employee's preparation, 64 Record or documentation, 64 Summary of accomplishments versus standards discussion, 67 Summary of recycling session, 69 Recommendations, 70 8 annual performance appraisal Is appraisal necessary?, 71 Purposes of appraisal discussion, 72 Manager's preparation, 74 Employee's preparation, 77 Suggestions, 83 9 the salary discussion The aggressor, 85 The silent one, 86 The basic salary plan, 86 Dialogue 1: Laying the foundation, 87 Dialogue 2: Changes in current ground rules, 90 Prerequisite dialogues, 90 Manager's preparation, 91 Case I-Giving an increase, 93 Case II-Withholding an increase, 94 Suggestions, 96 10 coaching the failing employee Why do employees fail?, 97 Increase dialogue with failing employees, 99 Preventive coaching, 100 Manager's preparation, 100 Help the employee prepare, 102 Recommendations, 109 11 the termination discussion The employee's view, 110 Minimize the predecision period, 111 Manager's preparation, 111 Employee's preparation, 113 Employee's response to coaching efforts, 115 Recommendations, 119 12 the career discussion Why discuss career?, 121 How the employee feels, 122 How to set up the career discussion, 123 Recommendations, 131 13 counselling on promotional opportunities Managerial investment and risk, 133 Assumptions, 134 The basic process, 135 The telephone set-up, 140 Recommendations, 146 14 pitfalls to avoid Underestimating employee capability, 148 Lowering standards for minority employees, 149 Too much paperwork, 150 Skipping day-to-day feedback, 150 Insufficient documentation of appraisal judgments, 151 Ignoring goal difficulty, 152 Failing to recognize individual excellence, 153 Ignoring organizational relationships, 153 index 155