| TITLE : TALK YOUR WAY TO SUCCESS: ORIGINALLY PUBLISHED AS PROFESSIONALLY SPEAKING |
CONTENTS
Foreword by John Naisbitt................................... 13
Introduction................................................ 17
PART ONE: WHAT IT TAKES TO BE SUCCESSFUL COMMUNICATOR
CHAPTER 1 THREE OF THE BEST...................................29
Challenge #1: Winning the Battle (Lee Iacocca) 30
Challenge #2: Maximizing Your Career (Millicent Fenwick) 35
Challenge #3: Getting the Real Story (Ted Koppel) 41
CHAPTER 2 THE KEY: BEING REAL..................................55
Being Private in Public 57
Relieving Tension 59
"Being Alive" 60
Relate to What You're Saying 60
Relate to Your Audience 61
Relate to Your Surroundings 61
Relate to Yourself 62
Learning Sensory/Emotional Awareness 63
Developing the Senses 63
Senory Recall 64
Use the Technique of Emotional Recall 66
Use Literature 67
Use Real Objects 68
Vulnerability 68
PART TWO: ALL YOU NEED TO KNOW TO GET YOUR MESSAGE ACROSS: THE LILYAN
WILDERPROGRAM (STEPS ONE-THREE)
CHAPTER 3 ORGANIZING YOUR THOUGHTS (STEP ONE)......................75
Choose an Objective 76
Arouse Instinctive Drives 77
Analyze the Situation 78
To Whom Are You Speaking? 78
Who Else Will Be Speaking? 78
Whta Is the Oeeasion? 79
Where Will It Take Place? 79
Plan Your Thoughts 80
Finding Materials 80
Using Tools 81
Deciding on a Length 81
Seleet One Main Point 81
Structure 82
Developing the Body: Tell Them 82
Developing the Climax 85
Developing the Conclusion: Tell Them What You Told Them 88
Developing the Introduction: Tell Them What You're
Going to Tell Them 89
Style 92
Clarity 93
Flow 95
Focus 96
Highlights 97
Humor 100
CHAPTER 4 YOUR VISUAL GUIDE (STEP TWO)..........................103
Outlines 104
Sentence Outline 104
Phrase Outline 106
Thought-by-Thought Outline 107
Type or Print Your Guide 108
Marking Your Outline or Presentation 108
CHAPTER 5 PRACTICE AND DELIVERY (STEP THREE)....................118
Practice 120
Practicing for Clarity 120
Practicing for Response 120
Practicing for Aliveness 124
Plan Ahead 124
Delivery 126
Stage Fright 127
Energy 128
Give-and-Take 129
Fresh Thoughts and Associations 129
Body Language 131
Mastering Props and Equipment 133
Using a Microphone 134
Taking Command 135
Questions and Answers 136
PART THREE: HOW TO SOUND YOUR BEST: THE
LILYAN WILDER PROGRAM (Step Four)
CHAPTER 6 IMPROVING YOUR VOICE................................141
Your Vocal Instrument 142
Identifying Vocal Problems 144
Getting Your Voice Ready to Use Every Day 148
First Warm-up Exercise 148
Second Warm-up Exercise 149
Dealing with Psychological Stress 152
The Six Basic Principles of Voice Work 153
1. Use Diaphragmatic and Abdominal Control 154
2. Focus 154
3. Linger on the Vowels 156
4. Keep Your Pitch Low 157
5. Keep Your Cheeks Up 157
6. Keep the Larynx Low 158
Voice Exercises 160
Projection Exercise 161
Breathing Exercise 162
Resonance Exercise 163
Projection, Breathing and Resonance 164
CHAPTER 7 SPEAKING CLEARLY..................................166
You Have No Right to Be Boring 166
Definitions 167
Consonants 170
Voiced and Unvoiced Sounds 173
Cognates 174
Vowels 175
The Harmony of Articulation 176
Practice Materials 178
Consonant Drill 179
Vowel Drill 191
Pronunciation 200
Words Commonly Mispronounced 201
CHAPTER 8 FINE-TUNING........................................203
Variety 205
Range 205
Pitch 206
Rate 207
Force 209
Quality 209
How to Develop Variety 210
Four Great Voices 210
The Frank Sinatra Exercise 212
Control 215
Flexibility 216
Exercises for Variety, Control and Flexibility 217
PART FOUR: SPEAKING UP AND SPEAKING OUT
CHAPTER 9 COMMUNICATING NINE TO FIVE...........................233
On-the-Job Strategies 234
Selling 234
Negotiating 235
Interviewing 238
Your Looks, Your Self 243
Everyday Challenges 244
Discussions with Superiors 244
Discussions with Subordinates 245
Discussions with Peers 246
Business Meetings 247
Community Meetings 248
On the Telephone 249
Thinking on Your Feet 253
Starting and Stopping 254
Difficult Situations 254
Panic 256
Intimidation 257
Hostility 259
Humiliation 259
Indifference 260
Interruptions 261
CHAPTER 10 MAKING THE MEDIA WORK FOR YOU......................263
Television 265
Local and Network News 265
Documentaries 265
Public Affairs 266
Talk Shows 266
Magazine Shows 267
Financial Broadcasts 268
Print 270
Radio 272
The Interview 273
The Stumbling Blocks 278
TV and Radio: On-the-Air Savvy 280
Your Television Image 282
Your Radio Personality 283
The Media and Your Message 285
CHAPTER 11 YOUR " POCKET GUIDES"............................290
Afterword by Charles Osgood 311
Index 313